Good marriages are not built during the good times, but during the storms. It is during the waves of life that your love and commitment present themselves in full character. Both of you need to completely forgive each other, and begin to establish a foundation built on Godly principals. You both need to place your own thoughts and feelings aside and start thinking about the choice you made to join as one. If you have children, then your children need to see what a Godly husband and wife look like. Put God first and He will drive this. It will take struggles, pain, happiness, commitment and effort, but anything that is of substance has these ingredients.
Be Strong. Act Like Men.