Have you ever considered the secretive nature of marriage. The things that happen in a marriage that are unknown to any other. The hidden seams that make a marriage strong.
With my words, I can tear down or build up.
With my actions, I can bless or ignore.
With my attitude, I can invite or reject.
Marriage is a journey of hidden things. The hidden things we can do for our spouse without their ever even knowing it. The hidden things we do with and for one another that others are not permitted to know. The information that is shared, the inside jokes, the passion, the things that are hidden.
I’d challenge you today to spend a few moments to think about the “hidden seams” in your marriage. The areas where you can bless your wife without her ever knowing. Invest in the hidden seams of your marriage and you will be stronger when you are together as well as when you are apart.
“Marriage has the power to set the course of your life as a whole. If your marriage is strong, even if all the circumstances in your life around you are filled with trouble and weakness, it won’t matter. You will be able to move out into the world in strength.” Timothy Keller, The Meaning of Marriage
Be Strong. Act Like Men.