God gave us His word as evidence that we would struggle with conflict:
“In your anger do not sin. Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.” Ephesians 4:26-27
“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up” Ephesians 4:29
“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other” Ephesians 4:32
And when all else fails:
“Each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband” Ephesians 5:33
Spend time with your spouse in God’s word. Pray together. Open your hearts to God’s desire for your marriage. Use the tools that He has given you.
Be Strong. Act Like Men.