Do you jog two miles or skip dessert because you feel healthy?
Or do you feel healthy because you jogged two miles and skipped dessert?
Of course…you take action to feel healthier.
So, when it comes to your marriage, your actions create your feelings. Most people think that the feeling of love comes before we express love. And in the beginning of a relationship, that’s what happens. You fall in love and then you do acts of love. Your feelings inspire your actions.
But mature love asks more of you. To create a strong lasting marriage, you first choose love actions. Your feelings will follow.
You have some changes you’d like to see in your spouse and your marriage, right? And if I were a betting man, I’d guess your spouse has some ideas too!
So what are you waiting for? Are you waiting for your spouse to make the first move? Are you waiting for your spouse to be more open to it? Are you waiting to feel loved?